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Self-Diagnosis and Symptoms of Lipedema: How to Tell If You Might Have It

If you’ve ever wondered why your legs seem disproportionately large compared to the rest of your body—or why dieting and exercise don’t seem to shrink stubborn fat in your lower half—you might be looking at something more than just weight gain or cellulite. Lipedema is a chronic fat disorder that affects millions of women, but it often goes undiagnosed or is mistaken for obesity. While only a trained specialist can make an official diagnosis, this article will walk you through key symptoms and self-checks to help you with self-diagnosis and better advocate for yourself.


What Is Lipedema?

Lipedema (pronounced LIP-uh-dee-muh) is a disorder of fat distribution that primarily affects women. It causes the abnormal accumulation of painful fat, usually in the legs, hips, buttocks, and sometimes arms—sparing the hands and feet. This condition is progressive and resistant to traditional weight loss methods.


The Most Common Signs and Symptoms

Here’s what to look for when doing a self-diagnosis check:

  • Disproportionate lower body fat: Fat often builds up symmetrically on both legs or arms, even if your upper body remains lean.
  • Column-like or “tree trunk” legs: The legs may appear thick and uniform in size from thighs to ankles, often ending abruptly at the ankles or wrists.
  • Cuffing at the ankles or wrists: There’s usually a sharp demarcation where fat ends and normal tissue begins.
  • Tenderness or easy bruising: The affected areas are often painful to the touch and bruise more easily than normal.
  • Swelling that worsens throughout the day: While fat is the primary issue, swelling (especially from standing or heat) is common and may reduce overnight.
  • Negative Stemmer’s Sign: You can pinch the skin at the base of the toes or fingers—if you can lift the skin, that’s a negative result and points toward lipedema rather than lymphedema.

The “Float Test” – Lipedema Fat Is Buoyant

One interesting self-test is to check for buoyancy. Women with lipedema often find that their legs float more easily in water. This is because lipedema fat has a higher fluid and connective tissue content. Try relaxing in a bathtub or pool and notice if your legs tend to float more than expected.


Palpation Test: Check the Cubital Area

Another helpful self-check is palpation of the cubital area, which is the inside crease of your elbow. Gently press this area with your fingers. Women with lipedema may feel small nodules, lumps, or even discomfort. Similar nodules might be found in the thighs or upper arms.


Understanding the Stages of Lipedema

Lipedema progresses through four distinct stages:

  • Stage 1: Smooth skin surface with soft, evenly distributed fat. Swelling comes and goes.
  • Stage 2: Uneven skin with indentations or “mattress-like” texture. Fat becomes harder and more nodular.
  • Stage 3: Large fat lobes form, particularly around the knees or thighs. Mobility may start to decline.
  • Stage 4 (Lipo-lymphedema): Advanced fat accumulation with concurrent lymphedema. This stage includes significant swelling, hardening of tissue, and more functional limitations.

When Does Lipedema Get Worse?

Lipedema tends to worsen during times of hormonal change, including:

  • Puberty
  • Pregnancy
  • Perimenopause and menopause
  • Starting or stopping hormonal birth control

If you noticed sudden changes in your body shape during these times, particularly in your lower half, it might be worth looking into.


How to Tell Lipedema Apart from Cellulite or Obesity

While cellulite and general weight gain affect many women, lipedema is distinct in these ways:

FeatureLipedemaCelluliteObesity
Symmetrical fat accumulationSometimes
Pain or tendernessSometimes
Swelling throughout daySometimes
Hands/feet unaffected
Bruising easily
Responds to diet/exercise

What to Do If You Suspect Lipedema

If you’ve done a self-diagnosis and recognize these symptoms, the next step is to seek out a specialist, preferably one familiar with lymphatic disorders or who has experience diagnosing and treating lipedema. Many general practitioners are unfamiliar with this condition and may misdiagnose it as simple obesity.

You might want to bring documentation, pictures of your body changes over time, and a symptom diary to your appointment to help make your case.


Final Thoughts

Learning about lipedema can be both enlightening and emotional—especially if you’ve struggled with body image, dieting, or unexplained pain for years. While a formal diagnosis is essential, becoming educated and self-aware can be the first empowering step toward healing and advocacy.

If you suspect you might have lipedema, you’re not alone. Keep learning, seek out community, and most importantly, don’t give up on finding answers.

Source: https://torontophysiotherapy.ca/patient-guide-to-self-diagnosing-lipedema-and-lipo-lymphedema/

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Why I Chose Calorie Tapering for Lipedema Weight Loss & Hormonal Health

One of the most frustrating parts of weight loss — especially with lipedema — is how easily progress stalls. You can eat clean, cut calories, and move your body, yet the scale barely budges. I’ve been there.

That’s why, after years of research and personal experimentation, I built a calorie tapering strategy into my LipedemaVegan 180-Day Protocol — and in addition to carbohydrate tapering and the unique supplements I take, it’s been a game-changer.

Here’s exactly how it works, why I chose this method, and how it helps prevent weight loss plateaus without wrecking your hormones.


🔄 What Is Calorie Tapering?

Calorie tapering is a structured way to gradually reduce calorie intake across the week, rather than cutting calories evenly every day.

Here’s how I do it:

DayCalories
Saturday2300
Sunday1500
Monday1400
Tuesday1300
Wednesday1200
Thursday1100
Friday0 (Full fast)

Total weekly intake: 8800 calories

This creates a weekly deficit of ~7,000 calories, which equals about 2 pounds of fat loss per week — without daily restriction or metabolic burnout.


💡 Why I Structured It This Way

1. High Calorie Day to Reboot Leptin and Preserve Muscle

Saturday’s 2300-calorie day gives my body a break and prevents the drop in leptin and thyroid hormones that often happen with prolonged calorie restriction. This helps:

  • Preserve lean muscle mass
  • Boost fat-burning hormones
  • Reduce binge risk or cravings later in the week

2. Gradual Reduction to Ease Into Fasting

Instead of jumping straight from eating to fasting, I gently reduce intake day by day. This:

  • Eases hunger and blood sugar crashes
  • Supports stable energy and mood
  • Mimics ancestral eating rhythms

3. Friday Fast for Autophagy + Fat Burn

Friday is a 39-hour water fast (Thursday dinner to Saturday breakfast), which:

  • Accelerates autophagy (cellular cleanup)
  • Mobilizes stubborn fibrotic lipedema fat
  • Gives the digestive system a rest

🔺 Why This Works Better Than Daily Restriction

If you eat 1250 calories every day, your body adapts quickly — slowing metabolism, reducing thyroid output, and increasing hunger hormones. That’s why many women hit a wall after a few weeks of dieting.

But by cycling calories and including both high and ultra-low intake days, this plan:

  • Keeps the body guessing
  • Prevents metabolic adaptation
  • Encourages sustained, steady fat loss

💖 Supporting a Healthy Menstrual Cycle

Many women worry that fasting or calorie restriction will disrupt their cycles — and that’s a valid concern. I’ve experienced disruption to my otherwise very normal and regular menstrual cycles when I cut calories in the past. But on this unique caloric tapering plan, my cycles have no been negatively impacted!

The key is strategic nourishment, especially during the follicular phase (right after your period) and the luteal phase (before your period). Here’s how my tapering plan helps:

  • Saturday’s refeed restores leptin and carbs, which support healthy ovulation and progesterone production.
  • Mid-week intake is enough to provide micronutrients, B vitamins, and fatty acids needed for hormone synthesis.
  • Full-day fasting is buffered by days of adequate intake — so it doesn’t shock the system or signal famine.

For me, this approach has helped regulate my cycle, reduce PMS, and avoid hormonal crashes that came with harsher diets.


📉 The Math: 7,000 Calorie Deficit = 2 Pounds Lost

Here’s the breakdown:

  • Maintenance level (for me): ~2300 calories/day = 16,100/week
  • Protocol intake: ~8800 calories/week
  • Deficit: 16,100 – 8,800 = 7,300 calories
  • Fat loss: 1 pound of fat = ~3,500 calories
  • Expected weight loss: ~2 lbs/week

And because it’s not a daily grind, it’s surprisingly sustainable.


🧠 Mindset Bonus: You Always Have Something to Look Forward To

  • Hardest day? Thursday — but you know a high-calorie Saturday is coming.
  • Rough weekend? No worries — you’ll recalibrate with gentle tapering.
  • Feeling good mid-week? You’re prepping for a fasting breakthrough.

It creates a rhythmic flow that works with your body, not against it.


Would You Try It?

If you’re dealing with lipedema, slow fat loss, hormone imbalance, or cycle disruption — this might be the structure you’ve been missing.

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My 1-Month Vegan Lipedema Weight Loss Update!

Hey everyone, and welcome back to my channel! I wanted to give a one-month update on my 180-Day Lipedema Vegan Protocol. The results so far have been super encouraging. In just 26 days, I’ve lost 13 pounds. And no, I’m not following a keto diet—I actually just ate some vegan frozen pizza, so definitely far from it.

I have a moderate-carb lunch every day and a low-carb dinner to encourage autophagy overnight. It’s working great for me because I’m a busy toddler mom who’s also self-employed with my own family business.

On Monday, I’ll be doing my second InBody scan, and I’m super excited to see the results. I check in with the scale every day, but it’ll be interesting to see which arms, legs, or areas of the body the weight has been removed from—and that’s what you get with the InBody scan. I’m doing them every 28 days because that’s the length of my menstrual cycle. By doing it on the same day of the cycle every month, it’ll accommodate for menstrual-related water retention, etc.

In addition to monitoring my weight loss every day and over the course of this 180-day protocol, I’ve also been feeling the fat tissues on my body to notice changes in them. When lipedema is first diagnosed, one of the areas that you can check is the cubital region, which is right above the elbow. When you palpate that fat, women with lipedema tend to have this granular, nodular, fibrotic feeling to the fat that exists in that region of the body. It’s also in your legs and other parts of the body that are affected by lipedema, but it’s easier to feel right above the elbow.

When I started, it felt kind of like a bag of rice—like feeling through the very thin, soft skin there and noticing all these granular pieces of proteins and fibrotic tissues developed within the fat. That area has softened tremendously, so that’s how I know my protocol is working. I’ve also noticed the same effect in my lower abdomen and my legs, but it’s really noticeable in the arms.

I’m super excited to see what five more months of this protocol will do. As I’ve mentioned in the past, this protocol is not just about diet or just about supplements—it’s also about therapies that I’m using, including manual lymphatic drainage. I had always heard it was good for you, but I didn’t know how to do it, so I taught myself.

I’m also using red light therapy. This is new technology, and I bought a full-body size mat that I lay on—on my stomach, face down for 10 minutes, and then I flip over and lay on my backside for 10 minutes—so it’s full-body coverage. I do that completely nude for full skin exposure. The mat I have has five power levels. I started on power level one at the start of this month, which is 50 watts. Every red light therapy machine has different settings, so feel free to ask in the comments if you want more details.

I just bumped it up to level two, which is 90 watts. I’m happy to link to the specific mat that I’m using. I do it right before bed, and I already really feel a difference after moving it up to level two. You increase gradually because you want your body to adjust to the red light exposure.

The main reason I’m using red light therapy is because it helps with lymphatic circulation. I also hope to lose 50+ pounds, and I believe the red light therapy will help tighten the skin. Red light increases circulation at the skin level, and with the supplement protocol that I am on, the red light is bringing my blood to the surface of the skin. It is anti-inflammatory, helping with circulation and microcirculation at the skin level, which I believe helps break down extra skin laxity as I lose weight.

Aside from weight loss on the scale and the palpable changes I’m feeling by examining the texture of the fat on my body, I’m also noticing that all my clothes fit way better. I feel way more comfortable in my skin, and I just can’t wait for continued results.

The diet plan I’m on is keeping my blood sugar really stable. I have no brain fog, and I have tons of energy. Again, I’m a toddler mom and self-employed with a first-generation farm business that keeps us really, really busy. Yet I’m able to follow this protocol and get all the tasks done that I need to for my day, my baby, and my family.

The main reason I designed some of the supplements to be included in this 180-day protocol was for hunger regulation. I consider myself a very hungry person—a volume eater, a big eater. The supplements I’m taking are helping keep my hunger levels down, which is key to sticking to a plan like this long-term. I think that’s why I’m seeing the results that I am.

In a few days, I’ll be posting my InBody scan results. I can’t wait to see where the weight loss is happening in my body and what other changes are occurring. So follow me on all the socials at @LipedemaVegan, check out my website LipedemaVegan.com, and subscribe to this YouTube channel.

The next video coming will be all about that InBody scan and the results that I’m getting after one month.

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Is it possible to be overweight AND undereating?

We’ve heard it since 6th grade PE class. If you eat more calories than you need, you’ll gain fat. And in order to lose weight, you just need to eat fewer calories… or at least that’s what the experts in our lives told us. Doctors, PE teachers, coaches, family members, magazines, etc. all told us that we needed to eat less to lose weight. And if you wanted to lose weight and reach your ideal body weight, you listened, didn’t you? You listened to them:

  • you starved yourself
  • you got comfortable with the feeling of being hungry
  • you always ate less than you wanted (except for those binges that resulted from hours and days of deprivation)
  • you beat yourself up when you gave in to cravings
  • you always tried again every Monday

Fast forward past all puberty, childbirth, sedentary jobs, traumatic and painful times in our lives, and all of the stressful events in our life that contributed to weight gain. You may be left with unwanted fat, and completely baffled by how you could be constantly dieting for years and decades, yet still be overweight!

Kim Kardashian eats 1700 calories per day, and is 5’3 and 110 pounds. Have you tried losing weight eating by eating between 1600-1800 and still failed to lose a single pound? How can a woman or man who weighs 100 pounds more than Kim Kardashian NOT lose weight consuming the same amount of caloric energy that she does?

How can a woman or man who weighs 100 pounds more than Kim Kardashian NOT lose weight consuming the same amount of caloric energy that she does?

The answer, quite simply, is metabolism. What if I told you that the harder you have tried to lose weight, the more difficult it will be? The second you decide to drastically cut calories in order to maximize your caloric deficit, you are creating a plateau and will be stuck at that undesirable weight until you begin to nourish your body. The key to weight loss is slow and steady weight loss, otherwise your body will work against your best efforts. And you may be burning more than you thought you were! (Check out the weight loss calculator at the end of this article)

Reverse dieting is all the rage in weight loss and body building communities these days, but what does it mean? Reverse dieting is the act of beginning to add MORE calories to your diet at a slow rate, in order to end a diet or increase your metabolism. Everyone has heard about folks who lost large amounts on weight, only to return to the unhealthy eating habits of their past and regain the weight they lost (and then some!). Your body is designed for survival. If you overfeed, it will store the extra calories as body fat for a future famine when you may need that fat for energy! The problem is, that in America, that day of famine never comes, and our bodies are biologically designed to hold on to that body fat.

But what if I told you that gradually increasing the calories you eat might actually result in weight loss? I personally never lost a pound after months of eating 1700 calories, but when I increased my intake to 2000 calories of whole food plant based meals, I finally saw the scale move in the right direction! Of course everyone’s target calories are unique to their age, height, weight, and activity level! What types of foods are considered WFPB? Whole grains, root vegetables, legumes, vegetables, fruits, seeds, and nuts, of course!

You know what else happened when I increased my caloric intake? I felt happier and healthier. I was more energetic to squeeze in that dog walk. I had less brain fog and more focus. I became goal-oriented. I met my pedometer and step goals with ease! It is possible that the rut you are in is caused by under nourishing yourself, and if you simply increased your intake of healthy foods, you would feel re-energized AND would accomplish your health related goals! Reach out any time to discuss your weight goals with me. I’m here for you!

Also, I highly recommend the following calculator for weight loss. Track your calories for a few day and see if you are eating more or less than this target! https://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/macronutcal.htm

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How to Lose Weight on a Budget

Whether your new year’s resolution is to lose weight, go vegan, or follow a budget; this article is for you! I am one of the hundreds of thousands of people who quit their full time job in Fall of 2021. I was a teacher for 10 years before a second career in healthcare/medical education. At the start of the pandemic, I started a local business which took off and allowed for me to become a full-time entrepreneur! I now run three businesses AND am preparing to buy a second real estate property for investment purposes in the next few months!

Being a full-time entrepreneur has been so exciting, but there are certainly aspects that require adjusting when you are coming from the security of a 9-5 career. One of those things is the need for an emergency savings fund! Right after I quit my job, my home’s air conditioner broke (of course!!). $8,000 later, we had a new furnace and AC unit but a dwindled emergency savings fund.

My new year’s resolutions are to continue losing weight on a whole food plant based vegan diet AND to keep my monthly meals under $350 total per person! Here’s how my $350 in food cost is broken down:

$350 divided by 30 days in a month = $11.67 in food costs per day

Three meals a day = $3.89 each Typical meals look like the following:

Breakfast= 2 baked sweet potatoes (97 cents), totaling 0.75 pounds, with a drizzle of maple syrup, cinnamon, salt, and hot sauce. Berry smoothie featuring 1 cup of frozen organic berries ($2.25) and 1 cup of frozen spinach (38 cents). TOTAL COST: $3.60

Lunch= 1.5 cups of rice (appx 50 cents) and 8 oz of frozen vegetable stir fry ($1.39), with 2 tbsp of teriyaki sauce, and an apple (75 cents)! TOTAL COST: $2.64

Dinner= A tray of roasted vegetables, including 3/4 pound of potato ($1 cents) and 2 cups of frozen green beans, (42 cents) and 2 tbsp of ketchup. TOTAL COST: $1.42

Dessert= 2 frozen bananas (60 cents) with 2 tbsp of cocoa powder to make chocolate banana nice cream! TOTAL COST: $0.60

These three meals cost $8.26 for the core food groups, allowing for some wiggle room in purchasing condiments, coffee, almond milk for that coffee, tea, etc!

Over the past several months, I’ve shifted my baseline diet to an ultra nutrient dense, whole food plant based diet. My current shift is to lower the cost of my groceries for financial freedom as I run multiple businesses and build an emergency savings fund! As I enter week three of this new eating and budgeting arrangement, it’s going great! Legumes, whole grains, vegetables, and fruits for the win! Follow my blog and find me on IG for more budget-friendly vegan weight loss tips!

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Hope for Those With Lipedema

I strive to write weight loss articles for all people regardless of age, gender, etc. However, today’s post is specifically written for those who suffer with rare adipose tissue disorders, such as lipedema (NOT to be confused with lymphedema). Whether you have never heard of this condition or suspect you have it, keep reading!

Lipedema is a genetic condition believed to effect at least 15% of women. It is characterized by disproportionate distribution of body fat to the butt and thighs (and sometimes calves). Many people call it “painful fat syndrome” because the fatty accumulations are very sensitive to touch and pressure. It’s typical onset is puberty, and the fat itself is resistant to diet and exercise. Interestingly, lipedema is unlike normal fat deposits. The fatty tissue floats when the body is submerged in water, unlike normal fatty tissue. Additionally, it has less circulatory activity, making it susceptible to “holding on to the cold” even when the body is taken into a warm place following a walk in wintery weather. Observers and sufferers alike often refer to the appearance of the legs as “tree trunks”. Individuals in lipedema are often also diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos hypermobility syndrome .

When I learned that the extra fat on my hips, butt, and thighs (and the frames of the vast majority of my female family members) was attributed to this untreatable condition, I was both relieved and devastated… relieved that my struggles with weight loss were not just due to my lack of willpower, but devastated in what felt like lifelong sentence to live in a fat suit. The only approved treatment is liposuction, which is expensive and not covered by insurance. Often, it takes multiple liposuction treatments, as the condition progressively worsens over time and can lead to more serious medical challenges.

There is a great debate over the best diet for this condition, but I can attest that a vegan diet is by far the best option to slow the progression of lipedema. From the time the fat accumulation began on my pear shaped body, I experienced pain when walking or running. I would describe the pain as being located in the fat tissue and caused by the vibration of each step I took. However, as I’ve switched to a vegan diet high in anti-inflammatory vegetables, fruit, whole grains, nuts, seeds, etc.; this pain in the tissue is nearly gone. I strongly believe that my dietary choices (high fiber, high water content, high nutrient density, loads of antioxidants, and strict avoidance of inflammatory foods such as dairy, etc.) have prevented me from progressing to the next stages of lipedema. Stage 2 is characterized as the fat from the thigh beginning to hang over the knee, and this has never happened to me in my 20 years since puberty (nearly all of them vegetarian, and the past 12 vegan!). Others my age have already typically seen their lipedema move to stage 2 by this point.

Over the past 12 years as a vegan, I gained about 20 pounds of weight in my arms and belly areas due to excessive enjoyment of vegan junk foods, stressful work conditions, and pregnancy. I am slowly but surely losing this weight now with a clean, whole food plants based diet. This diet has slowed the progression of my lipedema, and is advocated by experts on the topic such as Chuck Ehrlich (see below). I accept that the stubborn lipedema fat that makes me extremely pear shaped may not come off my body without surgical intervention, but I am motivated to lose the non-lipedema fat in order to reduce the risks of disease associated with being overweight/obese, including diabetes, heart disease, and cancers.

2025 Update!

In February of 2025, I designed a 180 Day Lipedema Fat Reduction protocol, which has become the focus of this blog and my social media presence! Follow me on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, and Pinterest for updates on my weight loss while following this unique diet plan, supplement regime, and intense therapy.

Click “LipedemaVegan eBooks” on the top of this page for my helpful resources to get you started on a lipedema-slowing vegan diet today! Information on my protocol will be released via social media channels first, then via a comprehesive downloadable resource!

This woman suffers from anorexia, but the lipedema fat tissue is unaffected by the starvation.
The stages of lipedema, from http://www.lipedema-simplified.org .
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7 Reasons Your Past Weight Loss Attempts Failed

  1. You ate too few calories: Sometimes in our excitement at the prospect of reaching our fat loss goals, we cut calories too low which is not sustainable long term. While there is little scientific evidence to support the idea of a broken metabolism, there is evidence to support the fact that eating too few calories for your daily activity level will eventually lead you to quit your plan and revert to the old eating habits that led to weight gain and plateaus. Busy, working men and women simply will not be able to accomplish their duties at work and home if they are only eating less than 1500 calories long term. Although you may want to go “all in”, consider shooting for 1600-1800 daily calorie goal. That is, unless you live a life of leisure!
  2. You reverted back to old eating habits too quickly: Recently, the idea of reverse dieting has come into popularity. This theory is commonly misunderstood. Reverse dieting simply refers to the idea that after a period of caloric deficit (i.e. eating 1400 calories), you must gradually increase your calories to avoid rapid weight regain as you return to your pre-diet caloric intake. By adding 100 calories per week to your diet until you return to your normal of 2000-2500 calories, you can ensure your metabolism adjusts to this increase in calories slowly. The theory also states that returning to pre-diet normal caloric intake will cause you to regain all of the weight that you lost with a vengeance. Sound familiar?
  3. You had no game plan for social events, special occasions, and holidays: Sure, you knew you were starting a diet a few weeks before your birthday. But did you simply write off that day as a “cheat day”, or did you carefully look at the morning after and thoughtfully consider what you would need to do, eat, and think about in order to get back on track? If you consume alcohol, partying with booze is always going to send your blood sugar in a tail spin. Waking up with a slight hangover is not going to be remedied with a portion-controlled bowl of oatmeal and flax seed. If you’re going to have a cheat day, plan on it and don’t go overboard. But if you’ll be imbibing, plan for your healthy eating to resume 36 hours later!
  4. You didn’t eat frequently enough: This one is dedicated to the whole food plant based eaters. When you eat predominantly vegetables, starches, and fruits, you are going to need to eat more frequently than when you were on a Standard American Diet or even a junk food vegan diet. If you are new to veganism, a vegan diet tends to be lower fat than a conventional western diet. If you are switching from junk food vegan to clean eating whole food plant based, than you will notice a difference in your satiation after meals. The dietary fats in nuts, seeds, faux meats and cheeses, and processed foods certainly attribute to slower digestion and prolonged fullness. However, eating a low caloric density diet by avoiding those higher fat foods is an excellent way to drop pounds. Just be prepared to eat four meals per day, if you find yourself struggling to stay full for 5 hours after each meal! Also be weary of intermittent fasting. Active, busy people may struggle with this way of eating long term.
  5. Your plan was far too restrictive: If you plan involved eating the same three meals each day, it was too restrictive. If your plan involved forcing yourself to eat food that you don’t enjoy, it was too restrictive. If your plan was to never eat certain favorite vegan foods ever again, it was too restrictive. You should be excited about all of the possible meals on your eating plan! Get excited by browsing Instagram and Pinterest for plant forward meals!
  6. You lost motivation too easily: So the scale hasn’t budged in two weeks. Women in particular can experience great swings in body weight due to hormones and salt retention. Also, in you happened to start a weight lifting or exercise regimen at the start of your diet, you likely are going to not see any losses on the scale while you concurrently lose fat and gain muscle. Try weighing in every four weeks instead of being preoccupied with the daily fluctuations you see on the scale. For some, an undesirable scale reading is emotionally distressing enough to cause a binge eating episode. Know your self. Step away from the scale if your happiness is associated with that little number.
  7. You didn’t believe in yourself: You must believe in order to achieve. Successful people visualize their success before it has happened. They behave as though they are their best self, and then their best self arrives over time. They stay dedicated to their goals and refuse to give up. A daily visualization while walking your dog may be all you need to shift your thoughts from negative from positive. Best believe, if you go into a healthy eating plan with the following thoughts, you WILL NOT succeed (so come to terms with your negative thought patterns and stay positive):
    • “I’ve found over time that I am unable to lose weight.”
    • “I know this probably won’t work, but I have to do something.”
    • “I never lost weight before, and I’m not going to lose weight now.”
    • “This may work for them, but I’m broken.”
    • “My medical condition makes it impossible for me to lose weight.”
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5 Reasons Smart Women Struggle to Lose Weight

Why is it so difficult for smart women to lose weight? Conscientious women practice “calories in vs. calories out”, tediously count calories, set ambitious goals, make promises to themselves to “stick to it” and still fail to lose the pounds. When that doesn’t work, they rigorously research the latest news in the world of diets, try limiting carbs or fats, and invariably fall off the wagon in a binge of the forbidden foods.

How many notebooks or digital files have you created dedicated to your weight loss journey?

How many different people have you partnered with and bared your soul to?

How much money have you invested in your weight loss goals?

How many times have you modified your dietary habits over holidays and celebrations to be a good little girl and stick to your plan?

When you think of the sacrifices you’ve made, are you happy with the results?

I’m guessing that your answer to some of these questions is “no.” There are energetic blockages that can prevent you from losing weight despite what your calorie counting software would lead you to believe. Here are several reasons why you might be doing everything right according to your calorie counter, but the pounds just aren’t coming off:

  1. Your calorie restriction is probably too extreme.

Smart women want to work efficiently and get things done quickly. That’s why they study thermodynamics and put their calories deficit goal on overdrive without realizing that it will cause failure in the end. We’ve all seen extreme deficits work for some, but if you are a serial dieter, it’s time to give that up! Shoot for a 500 calorie deficit and make peace with the fact that the weight loss will be gradual.

You are not a Victoria’s Secret model, so don’t try to eat like one. Thin or petite women who make a living posting Instagram reels of exotic travel destinations need far fewer calories than obese or overweight women climbing the career lady while balancing a hectic family life or social calendar! You may hear of someone losing weight on 1300 calories, but if you are burning 2300 as a 35 year old woman with a stressful job who walks her dogs (almost) daily and squeezes in chores/family/social engagements all evening and weekend — it’s likely not a sustainable target!

2. You are overworked, exhausted, and nearing burnout.

Smart women work challenging jobs. If you are starting a weight loss journey while you are juggling extreme life stressors such as a job change, new baby, breakup, financial stress, etc. you are putting yourself at risk of burnout. If you feel you are overly stressed, attempting to lose weight puts you at risk of burnout. If your method of embarking on a weight loss plan involves hardcore workouts before/after work at the expense of your sleep and mental wellbeing, then you are putting yourself at risk of burnout. Be kind to yourself, and make sure you focus on small healthy changes during tough times, instead of extreme measures that are bound to fail.

3. You are partying too hard on the weekends.

Smart girls work hard and play hard. No matter how “good” you are during the week, if you spend your weekends going through case of hard seltzers, shots, and/or full bottles of wine; you are going to erase that deficit you created all week. Consider limiting yourself to 1-2 libations, if you must imbibe. It’s also worth considering eliminating alcohol all together if you want to ensure that your calorie deficit- you can do this!

4. Your cheat days are off the chain (in a bad way).

Smart girls plan ahead. Listen, cheat day should not consist of multiple meals containing french fries, more than a single serving of rich dessert, or whole bags of potato chips. Yes, it’s absolutely OK to take a break from perfectly clean eating to enjoy an indulgent meal, but if your cheat day is more like a 24 hour or more binge, you need to exam what you are eating during the week. Binging is a natural response to extreme deprivation. Don’t get angry at yourself for falling off the wagon. If you are binging, the root cause if not getting enough nutrients in your diet due to extremely disordered eating patterns. Reexamine your health eating plan, add a few more calories and healthy versions of the foods you crave, and see if you find yourself avoiding the binge.

5. You don’t believe in yourself.

Smart women make intelligent judgements based on the evidence their mind gathers. This one is for the women who have tried and failed repeatedly, for years or decades. It is only logical that you would lose faith in the process and feel you have done it all. It makes perfect sense that the failures of the past are seared in your memory making it hard to have faith in the future.

I would argue that this is the most important idea in this article. Lean in closely: When you don’t believe in yourself, it looks like negative self-talk. It looks like saying “ugh” when you look in the mirror instead of seeing the beauty while doing a great job of sticking to your plan. It looks like saying to yourself and others “I’m on this stupid diet that probably isn’t going to work anyway.” It looks like frantically changing from one extreme diet to another. It looks like giving up after the scale didn’t move in a week or two.

So what is the solution? If you are going to find success, you have to take time to meditate. Many of your previous weight loss attempts were too extreme. They were designed out of desperation during tough times in your life. They were based on fad diets instead of prioritizing health food. Stop living in the past.

Moving forward, you are going to need to visualize your success at losing weight every single day. You are going to need to start living as the healthy woman you intend to be. You are going to think about what it feels like to be at a healthy weight. How would your coworkers treat you? What would you post on social media? What would you buy when you go shopping? What would you wear as a guest to a wedding? Make space in your day for meditation where you train your subconscious to become the new person instead of being stuck in Groundhogs Day as your old, overweight self! More on this topic coming soon… Thanks for reading!

Love, Kelly (your weight loss bestie)