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Unpopular Opinion: Intuitive Eating is NOT for Everyone

Call a local nutritionist. Scroll through Instagram. Browse a health/wellness magazine. “Eating intuitively” is a buzzphrase in the weight loss space. But is this sound advice for all peoples? Absolutely not.

147 MILLION people in America are obese. Are all of these people stuffing themselves past the level of fullness everyday? No. If “listening to your body’s hunger signals” worked for all people, then 42% of America would not be obese. If “eat when you hungry and stop when you are full” worked, then why don’t we teach this to the 20% of children who are obese to solve all of their problems. This concept is commonly uttered by thin wellness enthusiasts who have never experienced obesity. And sadly, they don’t realize the harm they are doing.

How “intuitive eating” harmed my health

There was a point when my body would tell me to buy vegan junk food at the grocery store. My body would tell me “just one more Oreo” 25 times in a row. My body would have no problem finishing off an entire bag of salty snack food while watching TV. My body would not be able to stop eating even though my brain was trying to override the hand to mouth movement. My body’s hunger and satiation signals WERE completely out of whack and had been since adolescence. I used intermittent fasting and unhealthy methods of restricting my “eating window” to balance out the caloric intake of these binges.

Out of desperation and complete lack of satisfaction with my growing physical size and overwhelming feelings of being out of control, I contacted nutritionists who blamed my vegan diet for my eating behaviors. They blamed hidden nutrient deficiencies for my binges. They rolled their eyes when I told them I refused to revert back to a standard American diet due to ethical reasons, even when their overpriced blood work all came back normal, showing no deficiencies. But then, they suggested that I needed to learn to listen to my body’s hunger signals to fix this behavior. They said I had been restricting my diet for too long, and that the binges were a result of long term dieting. Finally, we agreed on something.

They told me to listen to my body, eat when hungry, and simply enjoy binge-triggering foods “in moderation”. You can probably guess where this story is going… For me, it’s the salty corn chips and snacks, crunchy cereals, and nuts/nut butters that have always been my downfall. My favorite self-deprecating joke is, “I can eat my weight in Chex Mix!” It’s true what they say, “Once you pop, you can’t stop!”

I followed my nutritionists advice and gained 25 pounds in a relatively short time. I knew that my friends and coworkers noticed although none of them said a single word about it. Moderation was not an option for me. The advice to “eat when hungry” meant that I was eating nearly full sized meals every 2-3 hours. I was listening to my body, and that’s what it was telling me to do. And I was eating what I wanted. Processed and high fat foods that were delicious and always called me back for seconds. When I knew the portions on my plate were too large, I tried to eat mini meals which left me completely unsatisfied. I was completely distracted all day by the thought of my next meal. Thousands of dollars later and 25 pounds heavier, I broke off my relationship with those nutritionists. I can honestly say that this time in my life was the darkest of all of my days.

So how did I get my health back?

I feel healthier now than ever before. And I did figured it out WITHOUT the help of a condescending, anti-vegan nutritionist. I am binge-free for the first time since my teen years! I am in a state of weight loss, despite years of plateaus. I eat three square meals a day comfotably. My hunger is no longer ravenous, but rather a mild nagging reminder that I haven’t eaten in 4-6 hours and should consider what to make for my next meal. My preoccupation with food is gone.

How did I achieve this balance and peace with binge eating and food addiction? The answer is plants- in their whole form. No oil. I began filling half of my plate or bowl with non-starchy vegetables. The other half of my meals consists of starch such as whole, unprocessed grains (such as rice, oats, barley, corn, etc.), potatoes, sweet potatoes, and legumes. This way of eating is advocated by Dr. John McDougall in his book The Starch Solution. Chef AJ, High Carb Hannah, Plantiful Kiki, Chuck Carroll, are YouTube personalities that also promote this way of eating. They attribute their own massive weight loss to this dietary change.

But how does it work? The weight loss from this way of eating is the result of decreased caloric density of your overall meal. Starches have far less calories than meat, cheese, nuts, seeds, and oils. Vegetables have less calories than any other food group. But what they do have are loads of micronutrients, fiber, and water to fill you and satiate you. But avoiding higher fat foods and loading up with starches and veggies, you can eat far more VOLUME with less calories. Dr. McDougall argues that this is the natural diet of the human and that only since the invention of processed foods have we started experiencing early onset diabetes, cancer, and heart disease.

Sample meals

Nonstarchy vegetablesStarches Other ingredients/seasonings
Frozen stirfry veggiesBrown riceLiquid aminos, sriracha, ginger powder
Frozen green beansBaked sweet potatoCinnamon, hot sauce
Roasted Brussels sproutsRoasted potatoesFavorite dry seasoning of your choice and homemade ketchup
Roasted asparagusRoasted butternut squashMaple mustard dressing
Salad mixRice and beansTaco seasoning and salsa
Sautéed zucchiniRoasted acorn squashYour favorite garlic and herb seasonings
Steamed broccoliBrown riceFat free cheese sauce
Boiled cauliflowerBoiled potatoesBoil until tender
Peppers and onionsHashbrown potatoesYour favorite dry seasonings and salsa

I’ve dedicated this blog to sharing this way of eating that has freed me from the shackles of food addiction. For me, the answer was NOT counseling, “listening” to my dysfunctional body, intermittent fasting, skipping meals, diet pills, cutting carbs, or reverting back to meat eating. The answer was PLANTS. Large portions of low calorie foods to fill, satiate, and satisfy my hunger until the next meal… that was the key to breaking my binge eating and starvation cycle! I am excited each meal to fuel my body with wholesome food that nourishes and heals my mind, body, and soul!

I am happy to chat anytime with anyone about this way of eating. Find me on Instagram @weightogovegan, comment below, or email weightogovegan@outlook.com with questions! There is so much more coming soon, but if you are hungry for more information, check out the Starch Solution book that explains everything you need to know about how to eat plants to lose weight and prevent disease! I promise that if you are struggling and commit to trying this for several months, it will change your life as it did mine.

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Fat Loss Strategies

5 Reasons Smart Women Struggle to Lose Weight

Why is it so difficult for smart women to lose weight? Conscientious women practice “calories in vs. calories out”, tediously count calories, set ambitious goals, make promises to themselves to “stick to it” and still fail to lose the pounds. When that doesn’t work, they rigorously research the latest news in the world of diets, try limiting carbs or fats, and invariably fall off the wagon in a binge of the forbidden foods.

How many notebooks or digital files have you created dedicated to your weight loss journey?

How many different people have you partnered with and bared your soul to?

How much money have you invested in your weight loss goals?

How many times have you modified your dietary habits over holidays and celebrations to be a good little girl and stick to your plan?

When you think of the sacrifices you’ve made, are you happy with the results?

I’m guessing that your answer to some of these questions is “no.” There are energetic blockages that can prevent you from losing weight despite what your calorie counting software would lead you to believe. Here are several reasons why you might be doing everything right according to your calorie counter, but the pounds just aren’t coming off:

  1. Your calorie restriction is probably too extreme.

Smart women want to work efficiently and get things done quickly. That’s why they study thermodynamics and put their calories deficit goal on overdrive without realizing that it will cause failure in the end. We’ve all seen extreme deficits work for some, but if you are a serial dieter, it’s time to give that up! Shoot for a 500 calorie deficit and make peace with the fact that the weight loss will be gradual.

You are not a Victoria’s Secret model, so don’t try to eat like one. Thin or petite women who make a living posting Instagram reels of exotic travel destinations need far fewer calories than obese or overweight women climbing the career lady while balancing a hectic family life or social calendar! You may hear of someone losing weight on 1300 calories, but if you are burning 2300 as a 35 year old woman with a stressful job who walks her dogs (almost) daily and squeezes in chores/family/social engagements all evening and weekend — it’s likely not a sustainable target!

2. You are overworked, exhausted, and nearing burnout.

Smart women work challenging jobs. If you are starting a weight loss journey while you are juggling extreme life stressors such as a job change, new baby, breakup, financial stress, etc. you are putting yourself at risk of burnout. If you feel you are overly stressed, attempting to lose weight puts you at risk of burnout. If your method of embarking on a weight loss plan involves hardcore workouts before/after work at the expense of your sleep and mental wellbeing, then you are putting yourself at risk of burnout. Be kind to yourself, and make sure you focus on small healthy changes during tough times, instead of extreme measures that are bound to fail.

3. You are partying too hard on the weekends.

Smart girls work hard and play hard. No matter how “good” you are during the week, if you spend your weekends going through case of hard seltzers, shots, and/or full bottles of wine; you are going to erase that deficit you created all week. Consider limiting yourself to 1-2 libations, if you must imbibe. It’s also worth considering eliminating alcohol all together if you want to ensure that your calorie deficit- you can do this!

4. Your cheat days are off the chain (in a bad way).

Smart girls plan ahead. Listen, cheat day should not consist of multiple meals containing french fries, more than a single serving of rich dessert, or whole bags of potato chips. Yes, it’s absolutely OK to take a break from perfectly clean eating to enjoy an indulgent meal, but if your cheat day is more like a 24 hour or more binge, you need to exam what you are eating during the week. Binging is a natural response to extreme deprivation. Don’t get angry at yourself for falling off the wagon. If you are binging, the root cause if not getting enough nutrients in your diet due to extremely disordered eating patterns. Reexamine your health eating plan, add a few more calories and healthy versions of the foods you crave, and see if you find yourself avoiding the binge.

5. You don’t believe in yourself.

Smart women make intelligent judgements based on the evidence their mind gathers. This one is for the women who have tried and failed repeatedly, for years or decades. It is only logical that you would lose faith in the process and feel you have done it all. It makes perfect sense that the failures of the past are seared in your memory making it hard to have faith in the future.

I would argue that this is the most important idea in this article. Lean in closely: When you don’t believe in yourself, it looks like negative self-talk. It looks like saying “ugh” when you look in the mirror instead of seeing the beauty while doing a great job of sticking to your plan. It looks like saying to yourself and others “I’m on this stupid diet that probably isn’t going to work anyway.” It looks like frantically changing from one extreme diet to another. It looks like giving up after the scale didn’t move in a week or two.

So what is the solution? If you are going to find success, you have to take time to meditate. Many of your previous weight loss attempts were too extreme. They were designed out of desperation during tough times in your life. They were based on fad diets instead of prioritizing health food. Stop living in the past.

Moving forward, you are going to need to visualize your success at losing weight every single day. You are going to need to start living as the healthy woman you intend to be. You are going to think about what it feels like to be at a healthy weight. How would your coworkers treat you? What would you post on social media? What would you buy when you go shopping? What would you wear as a guest to a wedding? Make space in your day for meditation where you train your subconscious to become the new person instead of being stuck in Groundhogs Day as your old, overweight self! More on this topic coming soon… Thanks for reading!

Love, Kelly (your weight loss bestie)